It's been more than a month I'm here, and it's starting to show...
My mother's husband is here with this moronic attitude about how we should go about getting a job...
as it's easy for her at her age, and me with my citizenship still pending.
The hardest part is that you can't reason with ignorant people because all they hear is their reasons, and nobody else's.
My mother is heartbroken, and I can make a huge list of reason she is right to be, but that's beyond the case.
She is not strong enough to respond to such aggression, and I'm not willing to let her suffer this alone.
He is always bragging everything he has to pay for, and all he works, but now that she's out of money he pretends to make a common fund for the groceries, but as long as she was paying everything by herself, there was no need for such a fund... and boasts on how he doesn't judge or compares anything or anyone, but the first on the dinner table is how he had two little boys and a wife to support and got a job a week after arriving here... sure, 30 years ago, and with a profession that didn't require title of.
It is clear mother has an issue about money, and I have one about being employed or not, but only the lowest of individuals - because he doesn't even deserve to be called a person - would kick a person when it's down.
Narrow minds often need to undermine others, that's the only way they feel important and superior, when in reality, and ironically, they are only showing how inferior they are, in every sense of the word.
Now is from here onward, and what is most important for me personally is that I finally get my residence card, so I can work, and leave this house, either with my mother or by myself, whatever circumstance, will be better than her staying with this misogynist of a husband.
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